10 Social Media Commandments That Will Make or Break You in 2013

Julio Viskovich Social Selling Advisor & Strategist, NexLevel Sales

Posted on December 31st 2012

10 Social Media Commandments That Will Make or Break You in 2013

There are many social media users and businesses delving in to social media that don't exactly "get it". There seems this idea that big is better than lean. I'm not talking about men on magazine covers here, I'm talking about the idea that quantity beats quality of fans and followers. It is often hard to grasp how a Facebook fan count or Twitter followship of 1 million people does not result in sales while a smaller company with only a small percentage of fans/followers who are engaged are driving market share, sales, higher customer lifetime values, referrals, and more.

In order to lay some ground rules for being successful using social media, I have put together 10 commandments that will ensure users and businesses alike can reap the rewards of successful social media efforts.

 1. Thou shalt share, not tell. When organizations  use social media they often hope to get their consumers and audience to "like" them or "fan" them, but do this in an organic and relevant way with your fans.

2. Thou shalt always add value. Many organizations have not grasped the idea that you have to constantly and consistently add value to your audience or they will go the way of the dinosaur, EXTINCT!

3. Thou shalt participate in conversations, not chains. Many organizations still operate by Porter's Value Chain model, where Z follows Y, which follows X. These linear models optimized efficient delivery of a known thing. But this doesn't help us when faster, fluid responses are what we need (via @nilofer).

4. Thou shalt pay it forward. When somebody adds value to you or your brand, return the favor to them by giving them a shout-out (via @KempEdmonds).

5. Thou shalt be S.O.C.I.A.L. This means be sincere, open, collaborative, interested, authentic and likeable (from @ValaAfshar).

6. Thou shalt follow the #etiquette of each social network. Always use the appropriate speak that is relevant to the social network you are using. #BeerBongFriday might not fly or resonate with an audience on LinkedIn (See @ChrisBrogan's Guide to Social Media Etiquette).

7. Thou shalt produce relevant content. Produce content that your audience finds useful and want to share it because it is useful to others.

8. Thou shalt not sell. Social media is social. People use it to relate to one another and just like you wouldn’t walk into a party and start pitching your wares, you shouldn’t hard-sell on social media, either. Develop brand advocate and they will sell for you.

9. Thou shalt listen before speaking. You start your social media adventure by listening first. Find out what your customers and others might be saying about you online. Tools like HootSuite allow you to listen across multiple social networks and integrate with Google Alerts to monitor what is being said.

10. Thou shalt react but don’t overreact. If you see something posted about your company online that you don’t like, feel free to respond. But don’t get overly emotional about it, and don’t fire back. Respond with basic facts and a real desire to solve the customer’s problems.


Julio Viskovich

Social Selling Advisor & Strategist, NexLevel Sales

Julio is a Forbe's top 30 social selling expert, was one of the pioneers in the social sales space. and currently acts as the VP of Marketing at social selling powerhouse platform rFactr. He created the social selling program at HootSuite before launching one fo the tops social selling training and strategy companies, NexLevel Sales. Julio published his first book called Sellarketing this year and speaks globally onbehalf of the Global Social Media Institute and holds Adjunct Professor roles in Digital Marketing at UBC and Sauder School of Business. Julio has been involved in social business heavily since about 2010 when using Twitter as a way to engage and train Microsoft Partners, further entrenched after pioneering social selling at HootSuite and since working with fortune 500s on implementing sales and marketing alignment strategies for social selling adoption.

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Posted on December 31st 2012 at 9:35PM

Julio being a small business owner, I can say that I need to do all of things much, much better. It is so easy to get wrapped up in the trap of just posting content instead of asking questions. Great tips to help with audience engage. Just like everyone else, I want my social media audiance to thrive and not become extinct. Thanks for the great ideas and info.

Posted on January 2nd 2013 at 12:39PM

Thanks for your comments. Although they won't happen overnight, making these tips in to daily activities, audiences will quickly become engaged and return for more. Happy new year and best of luck for 2013!

Posted on January 1st 2013 at 10:53AM

Thanks for making the honest attempt to speak about this. I believe very robust approximately it and want to read more. If it’s OK, as you gain more in depth wisdom, would you thoughts adding extra articles similar to this one with additional information?

Posted on January 2nd 2013 at 12:43PM

Great suggestion. This is definitely a high level overview, more of a mantra to live by when using social. I would be happy to expand on some of these points and provide more insight/information. Perhaps my in my next post :)