It was a long weekend. My Twitter account got hacked, my phone died, and I had an awful sense of urgency all weekend long, when I should have been relaxing. Then, this morning I woke to the awful news of Trey Pennington's death. He wasn't someone I knew, but via social media anymore, we all feel we know people we follow, even if the relationship is just virtual.
Jay Baer wrote a blog piece this morning that gave me permission to breathe. Thank you, Jay. Even though Jay's post wasn't specifically about the potential suffocation social media can have when it is your career, it wandered pretty close to the line. The piece was more reflective of the false intimacy that social media creates, and was a reaction, of sorts, to Pennington's death. But the post reminded me that social media is just my job, it is not my life.
I buy clothes on the replacement theory. Years ago I realized that my closet was bulging, and I decided that for every piece of clothing I bought, I had to give one away. It made me more thoughtful about my purchases, for sure. Now, my inboxes are bulging, and I am starting to feel trapped by the need for new information. And it's not a good feeling. So, I am trying an experiment. For every new channel or application I take on, I have to let one go. I'm giving each channel 30 days to see if it's worth my time, or my clients' time. If not, I'm gone.
Google+ is the first casualty of my new resolution. I get it, it's just not for me. I've come to realize that it's a channel for people who already have a large, loyal following established. They seem to be the only ones getting decent interaction there. I know I'll be missing an opportunity to push my blogs up higher in the search engines by not using it as a broadcast channel, but I'm okay with that. I can't handle one more useless channel of notifications and friending. I'm a one-woman shop with only 600 Twitter followers. I need to "say no faster", as Chris Brogan would say. Sorry, Google+--gotta say no.